Play is Healing

‘Once upon a time…’ ‘This is the story of how…’ ‘Did anybody tell you…’ ‘I wonder if you know…’ ‘Speaking of…’ I hope all those phrases bring special memories to you, would they bring such feelings to your children or any of the kids you work with?

The art of storytelling is alive and kicking but maybe not as widespread and valued as it once was. Who told you stories? Your grandparents, mum, dad, a special auntie, an older sibling, cousin?  Perhaps in Playgroup, Nursery, Cubs, Girl guides? Maybe as part of your community, faith, summer camp, circle time, etc.?

There are so many elements that add to a storytelling session: the time you take, your audience, props, your voice, the space where you do it (bedtime in a room, around a camp fire, under a tree in the garden, in a quiet circle in your local library, in somebody’s living room, sitting on a parachute or on rugs bunch together in a community centre…) and of course the story you have chosen.

When was the last time you told a story? When was the last time you listened to one? Children and adults from any culture treasure this special art. Why not practice it and nurture it?

This is one of the best loved activities that can be played indoors and outdoors and in any season of the year! All you need is ‘treasure’ (from Pirate Gold coins for me hearties, to marbles hidden in a sandtray for a Play therapist to find) and clues! With a bit of planning you can keep them busy for a good while, and it does not have to be just little ones: you can mix ages, vary clues, maps and different levels of cooperation required to attain the desired end.

So, wherever you might be, make sure that in this season you have what you need before setting those wild and determined treasure hunters out there. As always: clear limits and boundaries, appropriate clothing, age appropriate clues/maps, gauge the level of difficulty when it comes to obstacles, be time aware (not too long…) and enjoy!

I have been away from writing for a fair while, too busy doing with kids and adults of different ages and backgrounds.  I must say that december was quite hectic and the pace is just starting to get even.  

Getting ready for Christmas at work and at home has always been a matter of keeping things moving, while at the same time taking time off to take stock of how far we have gone and how we got there.

Little rituals are very helpful in creating an atmosphere: whether decorating a tree, windows, doors, putting a nativity, lighting candles, wrapping presents, preparing special dishes (tamales, mince pies, etc with a family recipe) and taking time to do things together for the family or for somebody else.

It all goes too quickly, you know, the bit in the middle, the time and feelings that we have been preparing for and that now we remember while we clean, clear and decorate the house, hostel, office, residential home, hospital, etc., all over again so that it looks like nothing has happened.

As I wait for my first young client after Christmas and New Year, I hope most people had the time and opportunity to create good and healing experiences that will stay with them after the last decoration is safely packed way.